navigate family court, protect your family
You want to keep things amicable and act in your children's best interest. But your co-parent is declaring war.
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If you're divorcing a partner with narcissistic personality traits, or experiencing ongoing custody disputes with one, the well-meaning advice from loved ones and many attorneys does not apply. Because our family court system is woefully ill-equipped to see the manipulation, victimhood and cunning charm happening under everyone's nose.
A high conflict parent is self-serving, using coercive control tactics to ruthlessly tip the balance of power in their favor when the relationship ends. Devaluing, intimidation, triangulation and chronic blaming escalate. And when emotional and financial control don't silence you, they use your children and family court system as a weapon.
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Whether you are going through a high conflict divorce and custody, planning your way out, or are struggling to co-parent with your hostile ex, we can help.
personalized coaching for protective parents anywhere in the u.s.
"This is going to be a bloodbath."
-Actual quote from abuser to protective parent
your ally and advocate in a high conflict divorce
We are certified high conflict divorce coaches who have been on the front lines and are intensely driven to help counter the emotional and financial ruin of high conflict divorce, custody and co-parenting. We're guided by a value system that places the best interest of children above individual parental rights, and to reduce the power imbalance that protective parents experience.
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Stomping On Eggshells coaches are trained through the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Created by national family court advocate, Tina Swithin of One Mom's Battle and author of Divorcing a Narcissist, it's the nation's first and only coaching program specializing in high conflict divorce and custody cases fueled by narcissistic traits and coercive control.
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We'll guide you through 3 pivotal areas of high conflict divorce and custody that can make or break your case. And, we'll help you adopt an empowered mindset for seeing your situation in a radically new light. ​
OUR APPROACH
The process of divorcing an entitled partner is not quick, amicable or fair. Most court professionals lack understanding of the prevalence and impact of coercive control on families.
While laws and courts are slowly getting up to speed on the covert dynamics of coercive control, we take action now by working with you to increase your custody court literacy and readiness. When you work with one of our high conflict divorce coaches, you gain a strategic ally and personal advocate to guide you through every step of the divorce, custody and co-parenting process so that you're better prepared to navigate a hostile ex-partner within an invalidating system.
Stomping On Eggshells offers a unique and specialized coaching experience you won't find in traditional divorce coaching, because we are trained to offer strategy, guidance and support across 3 key areas of high conflict divorce, custody and co-parenting.
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The 3 LIEs of High Conflict Divorce, Custody & Co-parenting​​
Legal
Discover how to think strategically, stay organized and prepare documentation while avoiding pitfalls. ​
Interpersonal
Learn strategies for effective, productive co-parenting communication and for navigating parent-child challenges.​
emotional
Find out how to keep your resilience tank full with personalized guidance from a certified coach who 'gets it'.​
CLIENT FEEDBACK
"I got the outcome I hoped for and have you to thank. While I'm still in the middle of this ugly war, I won this battle. I am so glad I found you."​
-J, Worcester County, MA
"I am fortunate to have found you and felt a little more in control when everything seemed like it was falling apart.."
-S, Queens County, NY
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your crusade. You are changing lives for the better.
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K, Middlesex County, MA
"I followed your suggestion for responding to an OFW message and for the first time my ex did not come back with another attack."
J, Northampton County, PA